Hello,

Thirties; Married with four sons….teenager to months old.

Husband; Third…plan on keeping him. Artist, Webmaster, Photographer, Long haired and Handsome.

He is one of my biggest experiments in reality, that the world sees things through other eyes than mine,and are comfortable with that vision. They are comfortable until someone comes along and says to them,there are no shades of grey,and they say,’there is no black and white,’and  a new journey begins for both parties.

 No boast,but above average I.Q and  I am as about as common sensical as one can be .

Beyond my ability to think for my self and not be swayed by the masses,I see a woman emerge who can laugh and cry hardest at her self.

My contenment with life,I hope  leaves me to live  a life that allows me to grow without becoming too full of myself,and not totally killing my ambitions. Ambitions that have little to do with financial worth,but more to do with personal growth. I know to grow personally though it includes being productive and ardous person,at home,work and play .I am grounded,salt of the ground type sometimes,but I have no desire to live in a cardboard box,go on a fast,or live without airconditioning,lights and water,on purpose.

I do enjoy wine over beer and love the make up counter. I am by no means a white T and blue jeans kind of woman. My simplicity does not liein my wardrobe, but in my visions of things .

Simplicity does not mean that I am an uncomplicated person .

One word to describe me would be ‘contradiction’ . My exterior self seems to contradict my inner self.

I travelled the  a bit of the world as a flight attendant, and I have see the common threads of sadness, love, laughter and family bonds that make or break us us  no matter what age we are, what songs we sing, what language we speak.

I am still in aviation after 15 years, and my job entails way too much detail to go into, as pertains to Regulations that govern safety and quality of life of the crew members, their wages and Airline Union groups.

I currently am a Student of Criminal Justice . This study has taught me that despite the terrible bad out there, there are many good at heart people who did a bad thing. I have a vision of somehow helping someone who no one else gave a  chance that they deserved.

Meanwhile, because of this field of study, I tend to go through life over analyzing situations and people.

Sadly I have learned through my over analyses that most of the times,’if it looks like a duck,and quacks like a duck,it is a duck…not  a swan’ So go with an open mind on things,but let gut instinct be the ruler.

My experiences shows me daily that Life has no comp days ; Live your best life now,and never look back but to learn from what is behind us, be it good or bad.

I have such  a serious job that always invloves so much  analyzing and political playing .

I can play politics, but I refuse too.

 My honesty is my best and worst quality.

I am realizing daily that I might not be the Elitist,I once thought I was, but a free spirit and free  thinker . I am controversial and opinionated,too much for the stuck in a box,with no doors and windows political and yellow bellied  minded  players . I know when I exit the corporate doors, I will exit in style and pride ,full clothed and never having slept on the corporate ladder ride  .I never thought I would say this,but hear goes . I can see myself skirting shells on the Oceans edge ,dancing to Bob Marley, before I become someone who practices what I dont beleive in .

But this isnt  a blog on Corporate America

 Join me on journey of everyday things.

A journey of thoughts and wishes and  stories about all of us . Stories of plenty somethings,and sometimes nothings,of joy and not so much joy. But isnt that what real living is about ?

This daily  journey of jigsaw pieces keeps me grounded . I hope you see yourself too, and know the journey of your best life now,  can begin today.

Life has no comp days …remember that !!!